One of my relatives posted this on Facebook tonight.
I certainly don't believe that this is directed at me - it was simply her sharing her point of view.
I'm not really sure what I wanted to say about this - only that I disagree. If people want to stay together then giver but if what you show your children is hate, unhappiness and disregard for your personal well being I simply must say that I think you are not doing a good thing for your children and that leaving is better for them - despite all the bumps in the road ahead.
Sigh.
Ok - and now back to a great weekend with David - hooray for three day long weekends where things get accomplished!
xo
side note - I absolutely agree about not cutting your spouse down - no one should do that - it is completely ridiculous - I just disagree with people staying together and quietly hating each other and waiting for their kids to move out and then moving on with your life. end vent.
1 comment:
You know how I feel about the whole thing... being happy is the most important thing and your kids will benefit more from that than having parents in the same house that don't want to be.
This is coming from a child of divorce... life was so much better after the split... was it perfect... no... but it was better. We were a happier family.
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